Funeral

Funeral

An unexpected event often come and not even you manage to plan ahead is your death.

last weekend heard on the grand father went into hospital and out of sudden it pass away.

although can say to be expected at such age but also can't be expected when it really come.

Life seem to be decide by yourself to live what type of life but also not decide by you that how much time you have for your live. Perhaps this limitation makes people appreciate life and accept life much more when they towards ending.

Well sadness is when death it come and you are not ready to go. still got too much to do or much to tell to family relative sibling etc.. much to do. your dream plan or desire? although its death is sad but it also awake those still living that time is not luxury. It have a limit and you have to use it within your limit while the great part is you don't even know what is your time limit. 

Back to the funeral, currently seem all funeral event is well manage by Nirvana, but unexpected the cost is also not cheap.the person pass away to be put on the funeral for 2 -3 days, and do some religion ceremony. i start to realized this is for those living to have a time to pay a visit or have a look before it is burred forever.  also people pay some money as condolence also important as these money need to use to use to cover the funeral cost, similar like wedding dinner.

So when alive shall have a thought of your time is limited and better prepare well rather than with it come and you don't know what to do. Most important i think is what is the way you wish your funeral to be. there is quite many option for different religion, but overall here is just either Buried in land or burn. Both is depends on individual preference. Better is that you inform the living what you wish to do before you pass away. if you wish to be buried then you got to really take good look on the tomb and location you choose. unlike houses you can move if you not happy. this is once you move it then forever already. so it is utmost important to choose the location you like. if Burn into Ashes still can moving around. as it is easy to be carry away. 

Personal feeling is that, when still alive appreciate your life and time, live happily we don't know if there is tomorrow for us. so do you best today. and do all necessary planning before the end come to you. such as your funeral religion. method. buried or burn etc.. also writing a WILL is very important may refer to another Post on WILL.